Wishes and limits

Why the conversation beforehand pays

Most disappointment comes not from what someone could not do but from what was never discussed. A request that says what is intended produces a better suggestion than one that leaves everything open.

Stating wishes

Agencies are used to direct language and are not startled by it. More useful than a long explanation is a short list: the occasion, the length, the location, and what should or should not happen.

Anyone who finds that hard to write can call instead. Agencies have these conversations daily.

Limits on one side

A limit needs no justification. Saying that something will not happen is enough. A good agency notes it and passes it on, and an experienced companion asks again on arrival.

Limits on the other

Limits exist on the other side too. Not everyone accepts couple bookings, not everyone travels far, and not everyone does everything. That is what the profile says, and it is not room for negotiation.

Stopping

An appointment can always be ended. One word agreed in advance works best, precisely because it removes the need to argue. Experienced companions propose it themselves.

What an agency does not arrange

Mediation agencies in the Benelux mediate in time and company. Whatever adults agree between themselves afterwards falls outside that mediation and outside the payment to the agency. That distinction appears in nearly every agency disclaimer and is a legal boundary rather than a form of words.